How to be socially active and make friends...!!!

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How to be socially active and make friends...!!!
You would have wondered on many occasions after seeing some individuals who make friends where ever they go, befriending people from doormen to hot chicks; from
bartender to billionaires, as to how they do it? What qualities do they have that you don’t have to make friends so quick. These individuals just do things differently
which makes them friendly. Here are some traits that you need to follow in order to bring in that change in you. Ready?

a. Make sure you make eye contact.

Remember one
thing, making a good eye contact is very important. It is probably the most important trait to portray confidence and make friends. Note an important thing here; do not let go of the eye connection until the other person takes the
call of lowering his eyes. It is a clear indication that you are powerful, confident and has the control of the situation.

b. Show Confidence

If you are down on confidence, it is the right time to build it.
Great confidence is sequel of good body and mind - head to the gym, pick a hobby
etc. Take control of what you say and what you do, give time to your mind and body to respond efficiently, confidence will come automatically.

c. Be Humorous. Let
it flow in your blood.

Lightening up mood of yourself and other around is the most vital factor to control the situations. People easily get connected with humorous people, have start working on boosting
your skills.

d. Learn to start a conversation

Go ahead and approach people with small conversations. Pick a comfortable topic - music, weather etc

e. Small talk is enough

Whomever you meet, start with a small talk. For example, If you are talking to a bartender, query on how he is, and what is new on the menu or what his suggestions are for the night.

f. Listen..!!! and Only Listen..!!!

I dont think I have to elaborate on this. You all know about this.
Listening and listening only helps you in lot of ways. It helps you to pick on the subjects that the other person is interested in to converse with. Listening has always help and will
continue to do so. !! This also helps you find the commonalities between you, leading to
easier non-anxious conversations. Invite the person
out where you both have common motives. For example, if the other person is interested in arts and
paintings, invite her to an art gallery or museum.